Thursday, October 16, 2014

Where does Halloween came from?

Halloween is a holiday celebrated on the night of October 31.  The word Halloween is a shortening of All Hallows' Evening also known as Hallowe'en or All Hallows' Eve.

Traditional activities include trick-or-treating, bonfires, costume parties, visiting "haunted houses" and carving jack-o-lanterns. Irish and Scottish immigrants carried versions of the tradition to North America in the nineteenth century. Other western countries embraced the holiday in the late twentieth century including Ireland, the United States, Canada, Puerto Rico and the United Kingdom as well as of Australia and New Zealand.


Halloween has its origins in the ancient Celtic festival known as Samhain (pronounced "sah-win").
The festival of Samhain is a celebration of the end of the harvest season in Gaelic culture. Samhain was a time used by the ancient pagans to take stock of supplies and prepare for winter. The ancient Gaels believed that on October 31, the boundaries between the worlds of the living and the dead overlapped and the deceased would come back to life and cause havoc such as sickness or damaged crops.

The festival would frequently involve bonfires. It is believed that the fires attracted insects to the area which attracted bats to the area. These are additional attributes of the history of Halloween.

Masks and costumes were worn in an attempt to mimic the evil spirits or appease them.

Trick-or-treating, is an activity for children on or around Halloween in which they proceed from house to house in costumes, asking for treats such as confectionery with the question, "Trick or treat?" The "trick" part of "trick or treat" is a threat to play a trick on the homeowner or his property if no treat is given. Trick-or-treating is one of the main traditions of Halloween. It has become socially expected that if one lives in a neighborhood with children one should purchase treats in preparation for trick-or-treaters.

The history of Halloween has evolved.  The activity is popular in the United States, the United Kingdom, Ireland, Canada, and due to increased American cultural influence in recent years, imported through exposure to US television and other media, trick-or-treating has started to occur among children in many parts of Europe, and in the Saudi Aramco camps of Dhahran, Akaria compounds and Ras Tanura in Saudi Arabia. The most significant growth and resistance is in the United Kingdom, where the police have threatened to prosecute parents who allow their children to carry out the "trick" element. In continental Europe, where the commerce-driven importation of Halloween is seen with more skepticism, numerous destructive or illegal "tricks" and police warnings have further raised suspicion about this game and Halloween in general.

In Ohio, Iowa, and Massachusetts, the night designated for Trick-or-treating is often referred to as Beggars Night.

Part of the history of Halloween  is Halloween costumes. The practice of dressing up in costumes and begging door to door for treats on holidays goes back to the Middle Ages, and includes Christmas wassailing. Trick-or-treating resembles the late medieval practice of "souling," when poor folk would go door to door on Hallowmas (November 1), receiving food in return for prayers for the dead on All Souls Day (November 2). It originated in Ireland and Britain, although similar practices for the souls of the dead were found as far south as Italy. Shakespeare mentions the practice in his comedy The Two Gentlemen of Verona (1593), when Speed accuses his master of "puling [whimpering, whining], like a beggar at Hallowmas."

Yet there is no evidence that souling was ever practiced in America, and trick-or-treating may have developed in America independent of any Irish or British antecedent. There is little primary Halloween history documentation of masking or costuming on Halloween in Ireland, the UK, or America before 1900. The earliest known reference to ritual begging on Halloween in English speaking North America occurs in 1911, when a newspaper in Kingston, Ontario, near the border of upstate New York, reported that it was normal for the smaller children to go street guising (see below) on Halloween between 6 and 7 p.m., visiting shops and neighbors to be rewarded with nuts and candies for their rhymes and songs. Another isolated reference appears, place unknown, in 1915, with a third reference in Chicago in 1920. The thousands of Halloween postcards produced between the turn of the 20th century and the 1920s commonly show children but do not depict trick-or-treating. Ruth Edna Kelley, in her 1919 history of the holiday, The Book of Hallowe'en, makes no mention of such a custom in the chapter "Hallowe'en in America." It does not seem to have become a widespread practice until the 1930s, with the earliest known uses in print of the term "trick or treat" appearing in 1934, and the first use in a national publication occurring in 1939. Thus, although a quarter million Scots-Irish immigrated to America between 1717 and 1770, the Irish Potato Famine brought almost a million immigrants in 1845-1849, and British and Irish immigration to America peaked in the 1880s, ritualized begging on Halloween was virtually unknown in America until generations later.

Trick-or-treating spread from the western United States eastward, stalled by sugar rationing that began in April 1942 during World War II and did not end until June 1947.

Early national attention to trick-or-treating was given in October 1947 issues of the children's magazines Jack and Jill and Children's Activities, and by Halloween episodes of the network radio programs The Baby Snooks Show in 1946 and The Jack Benny Show and The Adventures of Ozzie and Harriet in 1948. The custom had become firmly established in popular culture by 1952, when Walt Disney portrayed it in the cartoon Trick or Treat, Ozzie and Harriet were besieged by trick-or-treaters on an episode of their television show, and UNICEF first conducted a national campaign for children to raise funds for the charity while trick-or-treating.

Trick-or-treating on the prairie. Although some popular histories of Halloween have characterized trick-or-treating as an adult invention to re-channel Halloween activities away from vandalism, nothing in the historical record supports this theory. To the contrary, adults, as reported in newspapers from the mid-1930s to the mid-1950s, typically saw it as a form of extortion, with reactions ranging from bemused indulgence to anger. Likewise, as portrayed on radio shows, children would have to explain what trick-or-treating was to puzzled adults, and not the other way around. Sometimes even the children protested: for Halloween 1948, members of the Madison Square Boys Club in New York City carried a parade banner that read "American Boys Don't Beg."

Source: http://www.halloweenhistory.org/

Wednesday, September 24, 2014

1890's Burwell House


This Saturday, the 27th, is the last regular day of the season to stop in for a historic tour of the 1890's Burwell House on Minnehaha Creek in Minnetonka. Tours from 12-4pm. And while you're there, take a stroll through the peaceful Burwell Park; bridge over Minnehaha, picturesque bench areas, boardwalk & rock wall scavenger hunt for the kids.

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Wednesday, September 17, 2014

Meeting Oprah Winfrey — briefly: Bartolotta gets 5 seconds with fame

You'd think from the picture that Jennifer Bartolotta and Oprah Winfrey have been close for years. In reality, it only captures an instant, but one that resulted in a great photo and memory for the prominent Milwaukee restaurant executive.

She was always inspired by Winfrey, but never made it to one of her shows, said Bartolotta, president of Train-2-Gain and head of the Bartolotta Restaurants' charitable arm.

In April, she jumped on a chance for tickets to Winfrey's "Live the Life You Want" tour — including passes to meet and have her photo taken with the talk-show icon.

Bartolotta and a friend saw Winfrey's speech, then took an elevator up to the post-show reception, where they were told to line up.

"This is actually going to happen," Bartolotta remembers thinking, "I'm going to have five seconds with Oprah in my life."

Five seconds was about all she got. But as she stood in line, Bartolotta thought about what she wanted with those few seconds, and recalled an appearance in Madison by the Dalai Lama.

"So, when it was my turn, I said, 'Actually, if you don't mind, I have a favor to ask,'" Bartolotta said.

Initially, Winfrey wasn't familiar with the request, but Bartolotta explained the Dalai Lama's traditional greeting.

"And next thing I know, she grabs my face with both of her hands," Bartolotta said. "They snap a picture, and then I'm gone."

The warmth in Winfrey's eyes and smile is evident in the photo. Bartolotta draws a bigger lesson from the brief moment.

"I think that's the beauty of someone who has spent her life living with intention, recognizing that she — as we all do — has the opportunity to impact another person," Bartolotta said. "You can light up or diminish a person's life."

Source: http://www.bizjournals.com/

Wednesday, September 10, 2014

Meet The World’s Poorest President, Jose Mujica

In a generation where you might think all politicians are ruling the world and continuously becomes rich and powerful by stealing money from its citizens, you may think that all of them are the same.  The story today proves otherwise as a man from the country of Uruguay who is globally known as “the poorest president” demonstrates that you can still rule a country by living your life in simplicity.

Here’s how Jose looks like (where it is also not uncommon that you see him dressed this way)

He spent most of his life fighting for his country
He was a Guerrilla leader in the mid 1960’s whom battled the war for the rights of his country’s citizen where he was also got imprisoned twice and shot 6 times
Instead of living at this presidential house, he chose to live in this simple farm.


He drives a 1987 VW beetle




He only has two guards positioned on his road. Along with his beloved 3-legged dog

Another fun fact is his salary is $12,000 per month (not bad) what’s great about it is that he donates 90% of it to charity to help his country.

This is a truly heartwarming story of a very inspiring president. I believe if our leaders would follow more of Jose’s example, the world would become a much better place.


Source: http://ohviral.com/

Thursday, September 4, 2014

On yer marks, get set, September!

Accepting the end of summer has been a bit hard, as we had quite nice weather here in Ireland this year.  But for the last couple of weeks autumn has been beckoning loudly, and with just two days left in August, it’s time to embrace it…

I actually always liked September.  Even when I was in school.  Not that I loved school, but I always enjoyed the anticipation of the new year.  Getting a new timetable, new books, new stationary.  And the sense of possibility of the new year stretching ahead.  What adults feel in January, school kids feel in September.

never too lateBut I never lost that in adulthood.  I still get that Back to School feeling.  It’s like a New Year reboot.  As we start hunkering down for winter, it feels good to have a plan as to how we’ll make the most of the long, dark evenings.  Aim for something better than vegging in front of the telly…

Of course, like New Year’s resolutions, September intentions also have a way of falling by the wayside when the winds are howling and the rains are lashing against the pane.  “I’ll go to Bootcamp another evening, tonight my body just wants to rest in front of the fire and my mind wants to numb out watching drivel on TV.”

Oops, there I go again – not following through on my promises to myself!  (A big No No for a certified Life Coach – oh well!)

But thankfully, over the last few years I’ve learned to treat goals as Could Do’s instead of Should Do’s.  Shoulds are not good for us, in my opinion.  In fact, in my case, I actively resist them.  And when I do set goals, they start to generate a kind of “should-ing” energy.  And then I start to lose interest in them very quickly.  So, for me, goal-setting is often counter-productive!

But here we are again, on the cusp of September, and I’m itching to set myself a few goals.  I want to establish a routine that will set me up for a productive winter.  But I’m also keenly aware that the first step, a supportive morning routine, the one that will help me follow through on the others, is one I’m verrrry likely to fail at.  But that’s ok, because these days I’m more tuned into the optional approach.

So much so that as I write this I’m laughing at myself.  Because I have actually being practicing this particular option, with very little success, all summer.  (Unless you count as success, which I kinda do, the fact that I haven’t beaten myself up for not following through on it)  For months now, I’ve been setting my alarm for 6.30am, with a view to snoozing until 7.00, allowing myself plenty of time to meditate, wash, have breakfast and read something inspiring before 9.00am.  Setting myself up for the day in a positive way, and having loads of time then to get through whatever tasks I am facing.

I could probably count on one hand the number of times that has happened.  Usually it’s 8.00 by the time I’m getting up to meditate, and while I never skip that, the inspiring reading part has totally suffered.  That’s a great pity.  Because when I have time for it, that always makes a huge difference to my attitude throughout the day.  Instead, I found myself skipping that most days as it’s already 9.30 – 10.00 before I’m finished breakfast and ready to start work…

So, the first step of my new autumn regime is to actually implement the summer one that I fell down on.  Well, I’m just keeping it never give up on a dreamas an option instead of dismissing it because it hasn’t worked for me so far.  Of course, if it was difficult to rise earlier in the summer, when it was bright outside, it’s going to be a more challenging ask as the mornings get colder and darker.

But I’ve realised that that is just part of life.  Wanting to do something.  Failing in some way.  Trying again.  I have a vision for myself – being the person who gets up reasonably early, without any great struggle, and spends two hours in self-care activity before getting into anything that falls in the category of tasks.

I haven’t managed to get there yet.  But I’m holding on to the vision.  This is the morning routine I aspire to, and if I can keep an energy of preference around it, avoiding the ol’ Should Syndrome, I believe I can get there eventually.  I might not be there by October.  But if I’m there by this time next year, that will be success.  And everything in between will be progress.

Source: http://www.thehappinessbusiness.com

Tuesday, August 19, 2014

Becoming Husband and Wife Entrepreneurs

Husband and wife entrepreneurs are popping up everywhere. Working together and having a home based business or running a business as a couple in your community is becoming main stream again. It is also very popular and couples who know how to work together are reaping the rewards of having a successful home based business.

It is important to know that successful husband and wife entrepreneurs have a code that they live by. They take their roles and responsibilities seriously and work to continually improve on them. Success with your spouse is not easy, but it is definitely worth it.

Here are 3 tips to help you grow into a strong husband and wife entrepreneurial team.

1) Leave your egos at the door. Having a business together means learning to work together and in order to run a business, create a great product and have systems working smoothly, you must be willing to give and receive feedback from each other. You will benefit most by being willing to receive suggestions without you seeing it as a personal attack on your abilities or character. You both will benefit most by becoming more emotionally adult and that means letting your ego have a back seat.

2) You will both benefit from knowing what kind of culture you want to have in your business, especially if it is a home based business. Sure you will start with the end in mind, however, you will be starting in your home office and couples treat each other differently in the home vs. an office.

If you have a home based business you must treat your spouse as if you were in an office setting. Practice being professional with each other right now, so that you become a strong united front from the start. Otherwise you will be caught off guard and treat each other marginally later and this will affect your success.

3) If you are starting a home based business it will benefit you both by running a business in a separate space in your home. Get it out of the main part of your home. Somewhere where you will not be disturbed much and do not disturb the rest of your household much. Think about accessibility. If you have a product based business in your home then think about deliveries and pickups. Make it so that you have good access for you and your vendors.

There is a lot of planning that goes into running a home based business and becoming husband and wife entrepreneurs. However, if you look at these 3 considerations up front, they will help you achieve success together.

Friday, August 15, 2014

The Emotions Behind Decision Making

Try to remember a time when you went to the negotiating table armed with irrefutable facts, airtight reasoning, and common sense on your side, believing that no one could resist your masterfully constructed argument. You figured there was no other logical conclusion, and failure was impossible. Then—surprise!—the person on the other side of the table had the audacity to question your logic and propose something completely different.

You’re not alone! Many negotiators believe logic, reason, rationality, and research can sway their opponent. What they don’t realize is that the process of going from considering to deciding is 100% emotional. Logic has nothing to do with it.

This is a critical fact for negotiators to grasp. Once they accept this, it will completely change the way they interact with their respected adversary in the next negotiation.

The Neuroscience of Decision Making

Not too many years ago, a neuroscientist named Antonio Damasio conducted a study of test subjects who had suffered damage in the section of the brain where emotions are processed. He observed that although they were unable to experience emotions, they were normal in every other way—except that they were unable to make decisions!

Each test subject could articulate in logical sentences what they should be doing, but found that even simple decisions, such as what to have for lunch, were difficult to impossible. “Shall I have soup or a hot dog?” Although most of us don’t give these simple, everyday decisions a second thought, these people were unable to arrive at a decision. Without their emotions, they were stuck!

We may waver back and forth over a big decision, but at the moment it must be made, we will base our choice on emotion. In fact, even decisions we believe to be purely logical ones are 100% driven by emotions.

Why Emotions Matter to Negotiators

For those in the negotiating profession, Damasio’s breakthrough has far-reaching implications. It means that many of the whiz kids coming up through the ranks who are being trained in the cold logic of negotiation as pure science are destined to be failures, because they are not taught the real motivators driving the opposite party’s decisions: emotions.

We see that rookie negotiators who come prepared to rely only on logic end up stranded, left with assumptions, guesses, and opinions as to why they don’t succeed. They were trained to think, “If my argument is logical and theirs is not, they are sure to be won over eventually.” It never works that way. If the opposition agrees with the logic, it’s because their emotions led them to agree.

Logic, as it turns out, is not the logical answer. The most logical and successful method of negotiation is to paint a vision for the other party of their pain and problems, based on what they’ve revealed in the negotiation. Allow them to come to the conclusion that you and your proposal offer a way out of that pain, and a solution to their problem. This makes the decision to hire you, use your services, agree to your price, etc., painless. It’s an emotional decision driven by the desire for relief.

The negotiator’s job is getting them to want to agree, employing a step-by-step method of asking questions and creating a vision. You can assist them in discovering for themselves what will be most helpful to them. Let self-interest guide them and you will reap great results. That’s because self-interest, the “I want/need this!” response, elicits strong emotions, and emotions are what drive us into action.

Their decision won’t be based on logic. It will be based on the insight that it’s to their advantage to agree to your proposition. All you did was to help them feel it more clearly!

Source: http://allbusiness.com